Street stylin by Charis

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It was such a nice day today that I decided to see who would be my next victim! lol.  I just had to add this outfit to my blog because I thought it was such a nice outfit.

What she wore:

Dress: Zimmermann




Here is the back of the outfit that I thought was absolutely fabulous! It’s such a great detailed comfortable outfit.  What are your thoughts?

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Five reasons why you should say “I love you” to your parents

feet-261750_640When was the last time that you told your parents those three words…I love you.   If you had to think about it, then you are not saying it enough times.  How many of us have a difficult time saying those three words?  Now is the time to say them.

Here are the top five reason why you should say “I love you” to your parents:

1.  Parents reaction gets me every time.  Sometimes they’ll say “what do you want?” or they might say “I love  you too”.  I always get a kick out of seeing how they will react when I say it.  I made a promise when I was really young to always tell my parents that I love them no matter what.  That means even if I was upset at them as a teenager, I always said I love you.  Believe me that it was not always easy but I learned by watching others that I did not want to feel any regrets when it was time for them to go.

2.  Life is too short.  Sadly, you never know how long your parents will be around.  Don’t waste your time and minutes thinking that you will do this or that for them.  Because even if you don’t have the money, time is more precious and valuable than money.  Spend time with them and if you have grandparents go visit them as well.  I wish  I could still have my grandparents with me and I would do anything to have them around right now but I don’t so I just appreciate the loved ones around me now which include my parents.  Besides my kids and husband, my parents are a gift from heaven that God sent to us to teach us valuable lessons in life.

3.  A little bit of appreciation will go a long way with your parents.  When you show them appreciation, they will see that you have matured.  Perhaps I may be wrong with this idea, but I think that when  you learn to appreciate your parents for all the hard work that they did for you is the minute that you have learned the real value in life is being thankful for everyone and everything.

4.  Developing gratitude.  Sometimes we get so caught up with life that we forget how to be thankful and show a little bit of gratitude.  Don’t forget the people who sacrificed so much for you would love to hear a thank you from you; no amount of money or stuff can compare a sincere thank you from the heart.

5.  Besides saying thank you, nothing beats saying “I’m sorry”.  Taking a moment to say am sorry for all the headaches that you gave them goes a long way.  When you have that conversation with them, it’s a chat that you will never forget or regret.

Do you want to add more reasons why? or perhaps you want to share a story when you had those chats with your parents? I would love to hear stories or comments.

#Madame Tussauds #NYC


As a New Yotaylor swift picrker, I want my kids to experience the best parts of NYC.  This is one experience that I do not want them to miss out.  People come from all over the world to come to the wax  museum so how could I not give my kids an experience that is right on their backyard.

Become a star at MADAME TUSSAUDS with over 85,000 square feet of interactive entertainment in the heart of Times Square. There are millions of things to see and do in New York City, but there is only one place where you can get up close with over 200 incredible wax figures of celebrities, historical icons, sports legends and more. From Marilyn Monroe to Barack Obama to Lady Gaga to Carmelo Anthony, there is a star for everyone! Don’t miss the thrilling Marvel Super Heroes 4D theater featuring Marvel’s legendary Super Heroes. Visit for more information.

Stay tuned for pictures and review on Madame Tussauds at NYC.

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Dominican style- Stuffed Peppers with Couscous

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One of my favorite dishes is stuffed peppers.  There are lot of different ways to do stuffed peppers but this recipe I just grabbed whatever was in the house and just put it all together.  Stuffed peppers can be made in many different ways with many different stuffing.  Some people like to add white rice and mix it in equal proportions to the meat but today I actually used Couscous instead to make this delicious Stuffed Peppers with Couscous.  Usually I have white rice in the fridge, but I didn’t have any and I was not going to have time to wait for the rice to be made so I decided to try something different.  I always love to improvise and try different things.

The peppers are great for dinner parties, family get-together s, and holiday meals, or when you are feeding a crowd and that is always the case with us.  lol.

Here is the recipe for the Stuffed Peppers with Couscous:


4 Red bell peppers (you can either had red, yellow or green but red is my favorite)

For the filling:

1 pound of ground meat

1 red onion


2 tablespoon of tomato paste

2 crushed garlic

1 tablespoon of oregano

2 tablespoon of Goya Adobo

1/2 tablespoon of black pepper

1 bag of Couscous

1 can of corn

1 can of sweet peas

1 bag of shredded cheddar cheese

1 jar of your favorite spaghetti sauce


Salt according to your taste


1.  Season the ground meat with the salt, oregano, adobo,  pepper and make sure that you mix the seasoning so that it absorbs the flavor.  In a pan, add some vegetable oil and a little bit of sugar when you see the sugar turning to a brown color (not black because that means you are burning the sugar) then it’s time to cook the meat.  Make sure you move it around with a spoon and then add your tomato paste and onions.  Add the cilantro and leek to your liking or if you need to add salt then this is the time to add flavor to your meat.  After it is cooked, place the meat in a bowl and save.

2.  Cut the top of the bell peppers and cut them in half, remove the seeds and separate.  Boil in a pan for about 10 minutes.  You don’t want the peppers to be too soft.  I prefer to cut them in half so it is easier to eat but some people like to serve the bell peppers in whole for presentation.

3.  In a separate pan, make the couscous.  It only should take about 6 minutes to make.  Jut add a little bit of butter, salt and I like to add chicken broth to give it more taste.  After it’s finished cooking, let it sit so it can continue to cook.

4.  Take a mixing bowl and mix the meat, corn, sweet pea and couscous all together.

5.  Stuff the peppers, add two tablespoon on spaghetti sauce on top of the peppers and top it off with the cheese.  In my case, I love cheese so I always add lots of cheese!

6.  In a pirex that have already been greased with Pam or butter, enter the peppers in a preheated oven of 350 for just 10 minutes or until you see the pepper wrinkles.

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Street Stylin it Wednesday!- the Charis way

andreaBy popular request, I have added now a new section that shall be called “Street Stylin”.  Basically, it will be pictures of random people in the streets of New York or wherever I am at that I see someone that I think looks nice or just have a sense of style.

My first victim…lol.  She is actually a friend of mine and ever since I have known her she always had a sense of style.  I met up with her in the streets of New York and just asked her if I could take a picture of her outfit.


What she wore:

Dress: Parker

Shoes: Aldo

Accessories: David Yurman necklace

If you have a picture of your favorite outfit that you will like to share, please feel free to share.  I always like to see  something new and creative.  Enjoy!

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ONE DIRECTION Makeup & Miami Concert Experience Giveaway #makeupby1D

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The world’s biggest biggest pop group introduces an impressive makeup collection that any fan enthusiast would love to own.  The Looks Collection has officially dropped into retailers like Macy’s and Dillards for fans to purchase.  If you are a hardcore fan, this a collectible item that you have to own.  Even if you are not a fan of the group, this makeup like is so fun and chic that it’s a must-have to add in your makeup bag.

The Looks Collection is a hot item at the stores and with the “Where we are” tour ending, I thought this would be an amazing opportunity to share with my readers to be actually at the One Direction makeup and dream Miami Concert Giveaway.  One luck winner has a chance to win the following:

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9/11 will never be forgotten: Share your story here

new-york-77639_6409/11 is a day that will never be forgotten.  The day where we were able to see war happen on our own backyard.  The day when the World Trade Center and the Pentagon came under attack.  How many of us have seen this story told so many times and all over the media?  Regardless how many times we hear this story, it always intrigued me how one event impacted so many people in so many different ways.  History is about telling a story, and in sharing that story you are also helping yourself become healed.

When I look back where I was on that day, I still get goose bumps.  I had a job interview that day at the World Trade Center at 10am.  I was running really late and that is very unusual for me.  But when I was on the train on the way going to the World Trade Center, I remembered that I forgot my cell phone.  Usually, I never go back for a phone but for some reason I decided that I just had to go back home and get it.  I was already on 125th street so why go back? As soon as I got off the train, I saw people were walking really fast as if they were in a rush but I didn’t think anything of it.  It’s New York after all.  But then I heard conversations and people talking…”did you hear about the attacks”? And that’s when I asked “what are you talking about?” And the lady told me whatever you do just go home.  That’s when I decided to just go back home and I didn’t take the train or the bus I walked all the way back home.  If we were under attack, then they would target trains and buses too so I walked.  When I got home and I saw the images, I was in complete shock.

I am grateful to God that I made it home safely and God was my savior that day.  If I had not forgotten my phone at home, who knows what would have had happened to me.

On that day we lost lives but I saw something amazing happen and that is watching strangers coming together.  I saw everyone helping each other in some way or another and this is how we became stronger than we were before.

Share your story here.  I want to hear your story and how you can count your blessings today.


How to remove nail cuticles without using painful tools

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How many of you have lots of cuticles around your nails? I have so much cuticles that I was spending so much money on going to the nail salon so they can remove them.  The problem is that I have a bad habit of biting my nails so I can’t see not even a little bit of cuticles otherwise I will start biting away.  I have tried so many things to eliminate this bad habit but I feel like the only way I can stop is by always removing the cuticle.

As I was at a drugstore one day, I saw this product just calling my name so I had to give it a try and I fell in love with it.  This is why I had to share it with my readers because it was my little solution to this nasty habit.  It has really helped me improve on my habit but I still haven’t completely eliminated it.  I am still working on that. lol.








Let me know if you have used this product before and if it has worked for you.  I would love to hear from you.  Check out my video below that I made to review this product.  Show some love!

What are your thoughts on a red carpet @Joan Rivers funeral?


After hearing about Joan Rivers death, I was deeply moved because I can’t imagine the way her daughter feels at this moment.  Then I saw the news about them having a red carpet at her funeral and it got me to think…Is there such a  thing as funeral etiquette?  Is it too old school to think that funerals are meant for a moment to reflect on the life of the person and not a moment to throw a big party or is it okay to throw a big party at the funeral?

Back in the days, I remember attending funerals and you could not even speak a word before someone gave you a glare but so much has changed now.  It’s now accepted when people throw parties at funeral or make more of an event rather than a funeral.

Regardless, what is the proper etiquette in funerals?  From my own experience and opinion, there are a few things to keep in mind when you do attend a funeral.

1.  Selfies at the funeral.  This one I still can’t grasp around this idea how people go to funerals and they start taking selfies with the deceased.  I mean really?  At first I thought it was a joke or a prank but it wasn’t at all; people were really taking selfies.  And not only with the deceased but they were also going around and taking selfies with people that they haven’t seen in a long time.  I understand that funerals can bring families and friends together but it is not a social butterfly scene and for you to start taking pictures with everyone.

2.  Turn the cell phones off.  I really do not know why is it so hard for some people to just remember that there needs to be some sort of peace, serenity and silence in a funeral.  It gives the person who is mourning a time to think or even grasp what is happening.  If the call is so important, then just stand up and go outside and take care of what you have to do but there is no reason why there needs to be a conversation inside the funeral home.

3.  Not being considerate to the feelings of the grieving family members.  One way this is shown is by talking and laughing too loud while there is silence in the room.  We don’t want to draw unnecessary attention to ourselves but to try to keep the focus and respect to the one that has passed away.  Usually at the end of the funeral, people do use the time to hello to old friends and family members that they haven’t seen in a long time.  In this case, more people are speaking and the noise level is raised as opposed to in the beginning of the funeral when it is usually quite.

Do you have a great story to share about improper manners at a funeral?  Please post comments below or go to Charis by Design facebook page so we can all join in the conversation.


Happy Grandparents day! What are your best memories?

1510792_10201333905055113_1247047629_nToday is National Grandparent’s Day and there is nothing sweeter than honoring them on this special day.  When I was younger, I had the privilege of having both of my grandmothers and grandfathers but for today I will speak of my grandparents who lived in New York City.  I loved both of my grandparents very dearly and have special memories of them in my heart.

My grandparents were Rosa and Victor Martinez and I wish they were still here today.  Both of my grandparents lived a remarkable life that inspired me greatly because they were missionaries to the church in the Dominican Republic.

They were the most patient, giving, helping, loving and attentive missionaries that I have met because they really took the time to serve others.  I remember my grandmother always happy and singing a hymn while she was washing dishes or cooking for others.  They were always ready to jump and help anyone who needed help.  All those strolls that we took together with all my cousins to the park will never be forgotten because that is when she would always say a story or quote something and take the time to talk and listen to us.  She always said to me “It’s important to listen to others because you don’t know what problem they may be going through”, and I have never forgotten her words.

As for my grandfather “Papa Victor”, he was never afraid to preach the gospel.  Always ready to share the good news and just talk to anyone who was ready to listen.  I miss his perspective on life and his gentle humor.  I miss the surprising depth of knowledge that he had without finishing school.


For this reason I will always hold them close to my heart.  I could never or will never measure up to them.  I only wish I could be just a little of what they were for the family.  But for now, I miss them both very dearly and I will treasure their memories forever.






What are your best memories with your grandparents?

Happy Grandparents day!

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